Following is a short excerpt from an article on Elephant Journal, between Waylon and Bernadette Birney. I'm going to let you discover for yourself, link to both sites at the bottom.
Bernadette Birney: As a community, after jfexposed, we needed to clean the wound, dress the wound, heal the wound. Instead, too many people wanted to sit around singing kumbaya, sending love and light.
Waylon Lewis: …and, too many wanted to attack the wound and throw salt on it.Neither approach—defensiveness/ignorance or blame/anger helps heal a wound. At all.
Bernadette: They did not get that we needed to hold JF accountable for his actions, for his own good, and for ours. Compassion is not always warm, fuzzy and cuddly.
Waylon: Yes! Tough mother love is anything but warm, fuzzy, cuddly, just ask my ma!
Give thanks and praise!